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The worst-kept secret... [Oct. 30th, 2000|02:41 pm]
Kurt Onstad
Well, actually, probably the worst kept secret about my life is the fact that I've slept with a married woman. The fact that the husband knows about it, and didn't care (and continues not to care. The couple is divorced now.) is a large part of why I don't particularly mind whether or not it's kept secret. But, the fact that Megan and I are dating seems to be right up there with my poorly-held secrets about my life. As I've said before, I'm not much of a secret-keeper. But, this one doesn't seem to be my fault. Josh (the husband mentioned above...) asked me, "So, what's the deal with you and Megan?" I was like, "Is it that obvious?" He says, "Well, only because I know the two of you..." He also mentioned that Megan told him we'd gone out a couple of times. Yay! Someone else to discuss this with...Not showing him the journal in its entirety, but I did copy and paste one entry and email it to him, telling him it was part of my diary...I'm personally the "shout it out to the world, because I'm happy" kind of person, but since Megan's not, I'm keeping it quiet for now. Except, of course, for right here...

Kurt Onstad
Stuck with a "talker" on the phone right now...

[User Picture]From: self
2000-10-31 03:47 am (UTC)


I've never been the kiss-and/or-tell type, but my experience has been that secret relationships lead to cover-up lies, which lead to rumors and accusations and fights, which lead to Hell.

Admittedly, "my experience" is a bit abnormal, but that would trigger a red flag for me.

Try to find out if there's a light at the end of the tunnel. You don't need anything more solid than "when she's comfortable with the world knowing," but some assurance that she's slowly moving in that direction would be a good thing.
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[User Picture]From: speedball
2000-10-31 03:36 pm (UTC)

Re: Hmm.

Well, she has mentioned a light at the end of the tunnel already in our conversations. She just wants to keep things quiet for now for the most part, while we figure out what exactly is going on between us...Although, that's becoming more and more obvious everytime we get together. If people are figuring it out on their own, than we're really not keeping it too hidden. And that doesn't seem to bother her, and it definitely doesn't bother me. So, we'll see what happens...

Kurt Onstad
Obviously has a very public life...
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